I am kind of answering my own question... but I went to the range today after watching Nicluas on tv and I found that I can increase my tempo ALOT more with good control if I keep the club in the middle of my arms or equally between both arm as seen here
http://www.golfswing.com/proswings/nicklaus.htm

not trying to compare my horrible swing to Jacks, but with the added stablitly I feel with the club "in the middle" I increased my tempo and gained an extra 80yds! from 200 to 280. Now I need to buy a new driver, because my swing speed increased so much I need a stiffer shaft. I hope sharing that "feeling" helps others inprove as much as I did.