hi steakdaddy
great to hear about your daughter, 13 great age to play golf but i would make sure she starts right and that would be with a pro, he or she will install all the right things at a age when its importent to get the basics right, she will take so much in at that age when 17/18 you will see the rewards. i tried to teach my daughter but all she wanted to do was hit the ball, she listened to the pro not me, ian's right about that. lol.
best of luck
bill