First tell us what kind of grip you have. Here are some good links describing the grip:

http://golf.about.com/od/golftips/ss/golfgrip_lead.htm

http://www.pga.com/improve/tips/setu...ajar100504.cfm

http://golfzone.sportsradio1300.com/tips5.html

On that first web page, be sure and follow the links for the "Trailing Hand" when you finish the ones for the "Lead" hand.

When you understand your grip. Go the the following link and play the video:

http://www.ritson-sole.com/golf-tips...ing-your-grip/

When this is done you should be thoroughly confused. Seriously though, it should help us and you understand your swing better. I am no pro but have done a lot of research lately that has been very helpful to me. Just thought I would share it.