in my opinion if i were you and ive been right where your at----forget about quick tips----seek out a competent instructor preferably one that uses video-----and change your stroke pattern so you can get the results you desire----after playing for ten years it wont be easy but you can do it----tips do not work for very long---maybe a day or week but inevitably the will fail-----i dont mean to sound harsh or abrasive im just given you the GODS HONEST TRUTH----STEVE