try changing your ball to the new Callaway Tour i or iX and see how you go.

i've just changed to them (Tour i) from the TItlist Pro V1 and i get more distance off the tee with just as much stopping ability on the green.

as with your ball flight going so high. try and lead your swing over the ball more with your hands before clubhead.... easier said than done, but you could be letting the club head outrun your hands on your swing.