Hi Cara,

Are you a member of any golf club (I haven't checked your profile)? If not, the first thing I suggest is, join one. Having said this, you'll become familiar with the membership and have more opportunities to play with them. If you can not join one, become more assertive. Most golfers are approachable.

In September I'm off to Hawaii for a girls week. We've been given leave passes from our husbands. We should hook up and have a hit.

Cheers