Hi Vectorinvestor,
If your
clubs have been sized for you correctly, the butt end of your club should sit in your palm of your hand resting against the heel bone of your left hand. As the proper grip has the grip resting in the middle section of your fingers, the
clubs will naturally rest against the proper part of your hand.
If you have to choke up on your
clubs by a considerable amount (which it sounds like you are) you should take your
clubs into your local repair shop and get them to fit you for the proper length. All this involves is removing the grips, cutting down the shaft and re-gripping your
clubs. Depending on the grips desired, this process can be as cheap as $3/club and can rise to $15/club. You may even get lucky enough to slavage your grips if they can be 'blown off' and that would considerably cut down the cost.